Since I am so engaged in preparing TOEFL, I am going to write this “Etiquette 101” in English. This essay contains some very useful information that ladies should know. Therefore, if you are interested, pay close attention.</STRONG>
 
 
 
We went to BC, which is a high-class restaurant in Syracuse for dinner, because it is holiday and the restaurant weekend. People who go there usually dress formally, such as gentlemen dress suits and ladies dress night-dresses. I luckily had very nice food include nice salad, delicious main dish, yummy dessert, and a cup of hot cappuccino there tonight.(Thanks Jo, Frank and Moose.) Moreover, I have learned one of the most important lessons from Jo and Frank, which would help me look like a well-educated lady while I am having dinner with my Mr. Right on the first date in the future. (I do not have a target yet…) I listened to them very carefully, I definitely do not want ruin the guys’ interests just because I act like an uneducated, impolite, and stupid Chinese girl. What’s more, I do not want to scare the guys away, either. How to keep a handsome, charming guy who you like? Well, you should better read the stuff below carefully if you want to be attractive by white guys. (I surely like white guys, so here is something that I should do and something that I should never do in front of them, and in a fancy, high-class restaurant.)</STRONG>
 
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PS. I am not trying to teach you to hide who you really are in front of your date. However, we can still use some smart and acceptable tricks to define ourselves, good for us and good for guys as well. But one thing you should remember, do not change to another person after you successfully got married to him, because it is just not nice, and if you did, for them, it means cheating. You should know that cheating is really bad in western culture. Once you are convinced cheat, you are finished. Better rude than sorry, if you cannot make yourself do what I am going to tell you to do, you should just be yourself, even that would be rude or scary.Haha...I am just kidding, well, actually, it is a very sirious subject.</STRONG>
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First of all, you have to know how to behave yourself when you are in a nice restaurant with your new guy. As soon as you are seated, remove the napkin from your place setting, unfold it, and put it in your lap. Do not shake it open. At some very formal restaurants, the waiter may do this for the diners, but it is not inappropriate to place your own napkin in your lap, even when this is the case. The napkin rests on the lap till the end of the meal. Don't clean the cutlery or wipe your face with the napkin.  阅读全文>>